Now, “bear” in mind, that everything I write is JUST MY OPINION and you are certainly entitled to your own. I don’t say things to intentionally rile anyone up but sometimes I just like to jump in with my own thoughts.
There have been a couple of posts lately about old music. Jerry had one last night and Al has mentioned more than once how much he appreciates the old tunes. He even made a comment to that effect on Jerry’s blog last nigh along with a few other commenters. Now Rick, (ya know I love ya!), had a somewhat different take on the subject and summarized his feelings with a succinct “Phewey”.
Rick goes on to say, “You, Jerry, and a few of your 'commenters' are once again stuck in 'things were better in the old days mythology'.” Well, since I was one of those other commenters I guess I was included in that group so I just HAFTA get in a rebuttal.
First of all, I don’t think there is a mythology of “things were better in the old days” – some things actually WERE better and some things were not as good. Music is the only one I will address tonight as that is my theme. You don’t want to get me started on the rest!
As far back as Biblical times, music was used to soothe and calm a troubled soul. In 1697, William Congreve, in The Mourning Bride, coined the phrase,
“Music has charm to soothe a savage beast, To soften rocks, or bend a knotted oak.”
An article by NPR, dated June 1, 2011, states that, “Science all but confirms that humans are hard-wired to respond to music.” Read the short but interesting article here. There is much more than that one article that has been written regarding the power of music if you care to do the research.
My point is that music has an entrée into the human psyche that is like nothing else. It seeps into your very being and finds residence in the deepest chamber of your soul. What you listen to affects how you think, feel, and remember.
That music has changed and will continue to change is inevitable. That parents of each new generation decry the new “modern” music is indisputable. However, I do not agree that the music our generation listened to was in any way, shape, or form, comparable to what the kids are listening to today.
I DO enjoy some of the modern songs; specifically some modern country or pop tunes, but it is the cesspool of some forms of rock that I am concerned about. I am talking about hard rock, heavy metal, black rock, whatever it is called nowadays. This is not a declaration that all young kids are evil or drug addicts or anything else. It is simply that more kids that you may want to realize are exposed to this kind of negative input from modern musicians on a daily basis, and I believe it is damaging in a viscereal way that the music of our generation never was.
One has only to go to the FB page of a young person involved in this type of music to understand what I am talking about. That is precisely what I did to research some of the lyrics to songs this young person was listening to and recommending. Here’s a sample of what I found on my young relative's page (and NOT the worst ones I read – those I will not give screen time to):
Thorns In The Planet's Side
I am a destroyer, a channel of satanic wrath.
My brothers are me, and I am them.
I stick thorns in the planet's side.
Planet of pestilence, refuge for the weak.
Kneel before satanic might!
With dishonor - there is only one way out.
The Suffering Of Others
The suffering of others is not the goal but simply a means to an end.And here’s a little gem that I would not print the words to but you can check it out for yourself. Rollin Balls Can anyone honestly call this “MUSIC?”
Although, it certainly brings temporary pleasure into my soul as well.
Contrast that with the words to one of the songs I loved as a teenager:
Theme From a Summer Place
There's a summer placeWhich words do you prefer?
Where it may rain or storm
Yet I'm safe and warm
For within that summer place
Your arms reach out to me
And my heart is free from all care
Of course we had nonsense songs too…who can forget “Alley OOP?” or “Papa OOO Mow-Mow” or “Flying Purple People Eater”? But the songs I remember did not glorify murder, rape, drugs, and all manner of filth. I wonder what it will be like in another 30 years. What is left to desecrate?
This change in words and melody did not happen overnight. It is like playing “Limbo”…the bar gradually gets set lower and lower until soon listening to that crap is like mud wrestling with pigs – Pretty soon the pigs aren’t the only ones covered with filth!
So I say, AND IT’S JUST MY HUMBLE OPINION, listen to what you want but just the fact that I appreciate old music with good words and melodic tunes, does not mean I am stuck in the dark ages, nor does it mean I abhor all things modern, nor does it make me an old fogey. Nostalgia can be a good thing and the memories of young love and a simpler time can be comforting. There is NOTHING wrong with that.
One final thought on ages past…who would you rather your daughter or grand daughter emulate….
Another well-said blog, Donna. I whole-heartedly agree with you. Sometimes we "elders" can't even understand the words of the modern songs, but then when we find out that it's all about suicide, killing, raping women, and killing cops, etc, I think we are protected when we can't understand the words. Too bad the kids all know the words and do not realize that they are not-so-subtly being wrongly influenced.
ReplyDeleteI agree with some of your thoughts on music - I don't care for hard rock at all, but I do like a lot of modern music - 50's and 60's music are not my cup of tea. LOL BUT mainly, I have to say I wouldn't want my daughter or granddaughter to emulate either of the extremes you pictured at the end of your blog!! :)
ReplyDeleteThank you Donna for an excellent post. Well written & well thought out. Good for you in speaking up & expressing your thoughts. Much appreciated. Now, let's boogey:))
ReplyDeleteHmmm, I'm not a bear pit person. At least not so far. You present a plausible argument, but pepper it with extremes. I don't know that all young folks are listening to your awful examples. I certainly wouldn't listen to them. I'm going to stay on the sidelines. :)
ReplyDeleteThanks, Donna, for jumping into a new bear pit! For clarification, friend Rick came back with a second comment. To see that, you can go to our blog.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the heads up Jerry. How nice that Rick and I landed in the Bear Pit together LOL. Hey, Rick, you got any leftovers?
ReplyDeleteThis really is just my opinion and if anyone has a different one, I applaud you. I always try to make clear that what I say may be right for me but not for everyone.
Yes,(to those who commented) I did point out some extremes, but I also stated that I like some of the modern music. It all about finding a nice middle ground!
Cue the violins and let's all make happy ♥
Good post, Donna. My 'phooey' comment was aimed at those who make 'declarative' judgments like 'the golden age of music is over' just because they think it is. And, that great singers and songs aren't as good as they used to be.
ReplyDeletePresident John Adams said "facts are stubborn things". The facts are that the music industry today is booming and it is being led by the 13 to 40 year old's who love today's variety of music from rap, soul, jazz, country, rock et. all. Facts also show that today's youth think this is the 'golden age' of music. I'm quite sure if some of these kids were asked to sit in a room and listen to songs by 'Bing Crosby, Perry Como, Frank Sinatra and Nat King Cole' they respond "get a gun and shoot me"!! You see, this is 'THEIR' golden age of music.
If you, or anyone else, doesn't like today's music that's just fine as long as a "it's just my opinion" is tagged along with that - like you have done(thank you).
So, for anyone to say that 'my music is better than your music' is indefensible - IMHO!
It sort of reminds me of folks who say 'Boondocking is a better method of RV'ing than staying in RV Resorts' or 'A MH is better than a 5th wheel'. Are these examples any different than 'my music is better than yours' - I don't think so!
Great post, though and lots of fun!!
Oh, by the way, Doris Day (the girl next door in your photo) was married 4 times!!!!
ReplyDeleteLady Gaga, the other lady, is single.
Too funny Rick...I wondered if anyone would pick up on that. However, in today's climate, they don't bother to even get married most of the time! It's all relative. Times change, people change, and morals change - right along with the music. I wonder which comes first???
ReplyDeleteI DO love a lively debate!!
ReplyDeleteWell, I cannot really enter the pit, since I have so little hearing left, I have to avoid all loud and harsh music:)
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ReplyDeleteLuckily I was raised to appreciate all genres of music... Loved the music from yesterday from Big Band to Rock n Roll... However I like most of today’s music too even Lady Gaga. Loved Doris Day and I love Lady Gaga she is a very talented young woman and a great humanitarian. YES she is different & weird but we know so many who are and that is what makes the world go round. Now as for crap rap and guys with their pants on the ground (LOL)I could live without that!!! So I do...but there are a few rap songs that have a good message.
ReplyDeleteHave fun & Travel safe
Donna
If I remember correctly, didn't one of your old time singers by the name of Cher dress weird and provocatively - sort of like today's Lady Gaga.
ReplyDeleteAnd how about another oldie but a goodie - Liberace?
I don't think times have changed all that much and today's celebrities are not any stranger than past celebrities.
What has changed is us. We're all older now and perhaps less tolerant than we used to be.
From one Donna to another you made some very valid points. Working at a restaurant I naturally work with a lot of young people. I love my 'old people' music as many call it because it reminds me of being young and carefree and experiencing the new world, but I also like many of the new country and pop rock of today. But I digress, in observing the youth I work with, the ones that are into the hard core rap have different attitudes,goals, and live choices than the ones that listen to artist like Lady Gaga or Brittany. The ones that are into the rap are more into drug use, alcohol and little goals. the other group is mainly into college,family and careers. After 12 years I have worked with a lot of young people and have seen the same thing over and over. Of course there are no absolutes in life except of course the old adage "death and taxes", but observation and experience shows a high correlation between music and personality. Now whether it is a chicken/egg concept I'm not smart enough to surmise
ReplyDeleteI much prefer the innocence of the 50's but I also lived through the turmoil of the 60's and Viet Nam. The 70's - I'm not sure what happened to them. In the 80's my child was born and so by the 90's I was listening to what he was listening to. Still finding time for my old favorites. But I agree with you, that some of today's lyrics are nothing but trash - filthy degrading demoralizing trash. And my heart breaks for those who think that this is music and is right. Then there is other music of today, that really isn't any more radical than the Beatles were in our day. I find this true about many things - not just music. And that would of course set us off into a totally new direction.
ReplyDeleteGreat post.
great post Donna!..good job on 'singin' your opinion!..I do like most kinds of music but none of that 'rapcrap' as we call it!!..but I can still remember my Dad saying something about that 'long haired group' on the Ed Sullivan show!..oh well..we are entitled to our opinions!..but I would have to vote for Doris Day rather than Lady Gaga!!..even if she has been married four times!
ReplyDeleteI, too, fret about the words to SOME of today's music. Gutter talk is gutter talk no matter who says it.
ReplyDeleteJust my opinion.
Just my opinion, but, music is art and art imitates life. Each generation has it's right to it's music.(whither I like it or not!)
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