We got the Fit back already! We were afraid that the front end had been tweaked and would need some work. But the news was good!!
They said the alignment was not even off! All it needed was new tires where they had been chewed up. So Rick was right, we could have gotten by with getting some tires on locally and continued on our way. But after being stranded in Pendleton for 11 days last April, we were not anxious to repeat that scenario in Umatilla, OR!! So we are home, the Fit is home and we are trying to decide what to do next.
Fear is a funny thing. It kinda sneaks up on you and before you know it, it has you in its grasp. Those nasty little thoughts about what has happened and what might happen chase themselves around in your head like a nightmarish Merry-go-round. It’s been that kind of year here and we need to figure out what to do to get ourselves out of the funk.
Just heard about someone who had their motorhome broken into and all their electronics stolen, and some other damage done. This was while it was parked in their driveway behind a locked gate. There are bad people out there and bad things happen. But theirs is not my story to tell. It just goes to show that you never know what is coming at you next. If thieves will break into a motor home parked in a driveway behind a locked gate, what might they do if they notice the RV is gone for an extended period of time and the house is unoccupied?
Bad things can happen whether you are at home or on the road. My sister could have died while I was gone. We could have lost Rusty while we were gone. But both of these things happened while we were at home, not on the road. It doesn’t matter where you are, you cannot hide from life. But you can evaluate your choices and make decisions based on life experiences.
If we choose to stay at home and get rid of the RV, it will not be because of things that may happen on the road. It will be a conscious choice made on the basis of what is right for us. It seems, with our physical limitations, and perhaps some mental lapses as well, that we might just be better off sticking closer to home. We think the latest problem with the Fit just might have been operator error. If we could mess up in such a simple matter and cause such damage, who knows what else we might do?
This is not meant to be a downer. It is simply a statement of fact. We are doing some serious thinking about what we need to do with the rest of our lives. RVing is a wonderful activity and we enjoyed it for many years when we were younger. If we choose to stop RVing, it is not an indictment of that lifestyle, it is simply what we need to do for ourselves. We will always have our memories of trips we have taken and things we have seen. We can always go for a short trip somewhere close and stay in a rental.
And so, the next few days will be spent thinking and talking. We can’t take off right now anyway. We have some kind of electrical problem here at home. I turned on the A/C in the motor home yesterday afternoon as it was so HOT inside. Went back a couple of hours later and there was no electric to the rig. The pool pump was also dead. Both of these are on separate circuits and Russ checked the breakers and they were not tripped. He reset them anyway but that did no good. The motor home plug-in is showing no power on the tester. So Monday we will call the electrical company that put the plug in for us and see what they can do.
Whatever you decide I'm sure it will be given thoughtful consideration and I hope you will be comfortable with whatever choice you make. The best to you.
ReplyDeleteLife is about choices and opportunities. And they all don't need to be in an RV. How about couch surfing? LOL I do know that whatever you decide to do, you will have a great time no matter what. And that is all that matters. Living with fear is not fun. That's why we've never gone through the middle of the country. My fear of tornadoes. And eventually we all have to come off the road. That's life and we just need to enjoy every minute of it.
ReplyDeleteStuff happens in life, and it's not always pleasant. If we can manage to look on the bright side of things, our attitudes and emotions usually follow along. You will make the decision that's right for you. Just a thought, though, it doesn't seem to be your motorhome that has been the cause of any of your traveling troubles. ;)
ReplyDeleteYou have to make the right decision for your family. Whatever you decide, I hope you continue to blog. I love to read about your family and see the pictures. I have a small family and always wanted a bigger family. My husband never wanted to drive an RV, so I would find RV parks and other places that had nice cabins with kitchens to stay at during our travels.
ReplyDeleteYou will make the right decision for the two of you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you both through this process.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear about all your issues this past week. What a roller-coaster! We're in Eugene for a few more days if you guys have time to meetup. If not, no worries. You've got a lot in your plate right now.
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Seems it is always something, eh? A very thoughtful blog. Things i have been thinking about for sometime now. Thank you for telling it as it is.
ReplyDeleteRuss, I don't know if you have a check list when you start out with the RV, but everyone of all ages needs to use one. Lot's involved as you know.Very easy to forget to be sure the steering is operating freely.That's why pilots use one before takeoff.I must confess to unhooking the trailer and driving off with the trailer still plugged into the truck (Twice)That was before the check list, and I was 30 years old at the time :) If you hang up the RV keys, don't let it be because of travel preparation. Keep moving. It keeps you young. Good luck in whatever you decide.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the good advice. I do have a checklist that I laminated from the page in the owner's manual, but I obviously don't use it as I should. I will put it in the car, and refer to it each time I set the Fit up to tow. I need Donna to watch what I'm doing to make sure I do it correctly. Much of what has happened to us is likely directly related to my problems in doing things correctly. I will make some additional checklists that we will use, and I will make corrections in the things I do. Thanks for the caring comment.
DeleteRuss, Donna, I know you will make the right decision for you two. But (and I have no vote here)I sure hope you choose to continue with the RV. We are still hoping that we can make our paths meet somewhere down the road. I really feel that these problems we both have been having are just tests from the man upstairs. Maybe he is just trying to toughen us up!
ReplyDeleteBut know we support you in whatever choice you make.
Some days I feel the same way. As Craig works on the house I keep thinking how nice it is here and how wonderful the weather is.
ReplyDeleteOur close call on Hwy. 1 really shook me up, and if it hadn't been almost the last possible day to reserve a spot I would have never booked us into Yosemite! We are going to have to drive a mountain road to get there!
But we are leaving in three days. Out to spend lots of money on maintenence things!
Would we be better off if we hadn't gotten this idea?
Safer. Richer. But bored!
Your description of “fear” really hit home. I think all of us deal with it no matter our age or situation, at home or on the road somewhere. The trick is to not let anxiety devour you. While you and Russ will make decisions best for you, I do hope you will eventually judge these unpleasant instances as merely a small stretch of bad road.
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I understand your feelings well & good for you in sharing them. We often hear the other side of the story with many folks talking about their hopes & dreams of beginning an RV lifestyle. Not too many posts about the day those RVing dreams come to an eventual end. Knowing what to do is not an easy decision but one of the first positive steps in decision making is talking about it..... Good for you.
ReplyDeleteYou two have made so many wonderful happy memories, which you know you will always have. What ever your decision, you won't lose those.
ReplyDeleteWe can suggest all sorts of solutions for you, but in the end it must be what is best for you two! Please know we will be thinking of you the next few days and praying for guidance in your decision.
You need to do what is right for you, not what others think is right for you. Instead of making a rash decision based on fears or recent events, you plan to give it considerable thought and discussion ... that's the right way to go.
ReplyDeleteI really appreciated reading your post today... We are in the midst of what has been our twice annual trip between Texas and Maine... Each trip takes longer and each trip we evaluate other options. The good thing is... there ARE other options to living a "traveling" lifestyle. We all need to do what works for us... and I've no doubt you'll make the right decision for you.
ReplyDeleteEveryone makes mistakes at home and on the road. We have forgot that important step of unlocking the wheels on the toad before and luckily heard the screech of the tires before it did any damage. Hugs & prayers for your decisions coming your way.
ReplyDeleteI have come to rely more and more on 'checklists' each time we arrive or leave home or any campground. I can't rely on memory to remember all the things that must be done to ensure safe travel. I don't leave until every single point is checked off.
ReplyDeleteI'm sure you'll come to the right decision for you about future RV'ing plans.
There is a time when all of us have to decide what works best for us. Sometimes a bigger RV and sometimes a smaller one works. Think it through before you jump and I'm sure you'll come up with the best decision for you. We've certainly had our share of incidents. Every time we do I keep saying it was a learning experience. I wish we'd stop having these experiences.
ReplyDeleteNick Russell always used to say "It's all part of the adventure." That's true, but you are the ones who must guide your adventure where it fits you. Keep that serious thinking going, and keep all the doors and windows open for fresh thoughts. No one can make your decisions but you guys, but many can offer opinions and options for you to consider. We're beginning to think along similar lines, so it will be part of our thought pattern to listen to yours!
ReplyDeleteSome cars have a built in steering geometry that does not make them good candidates for towing. They are known for this canted wheel problem. You can check RV forums for more information on this. I understand your worrying about break-ins to the RV and house but honestly that is why you have insurance. You can replace things. The big thing is that you will always have "bumps in the road" wherever you are. You just need to make the best of what life throws at you. Good luck in whatever you decide to do.
ReplyDeleteThank you for the thoughtful comment. The Fit is a car that is towed successfully behind motorhomes by many people that we know, and some of them even have Lazy Daze motorhomes, as we do. I can't help but believe that the problems we have had with it are related more to "operator error" or interactions with other devices such as the Even Brake. I will be using the checklist that I laminated when we first got the Fit. Since then, I've always thought I remembered everything well, and didn't need to use it. Now, I realize that I'd make a really poor pilot, because I'd probably think the same thing about the checklists that they use each time they fly. I need to realize that I'm probably a big part of the problem, and that I can improve. Thanks again for your concern and for your kind comment.
DeleteI struggle with the fears of "what if" as well - there have been times in my life when I made choices based on what felt safer. And maybe that was the right choice for me at that time, who knows. But now I am focusing on following my dream, and trusting God to take care of the "what ifs" for me. Not saying this to say that you should do this or do that, it's just where I am. :) Echoing the thought of others though...no matter what you do, hope you keep blogging about it!! :)
ReplyDeleteThanks for stopping by my blog and leaving a comment. I've been looking for some RV blogs to check in on. I'm wriyng this from a campground in Rapid City and we're headed for Cheyenne tomorrow.
ReplyDeleteGlad to hear there were no costly (sort of) problems with the Fit other than tires. I'm sure you will do fine the next time you hook it up to tow. Appreciate you sharing the experience and your thoughts on if and when to slow down or stop your travels. Don't see much of that anywhere else. Best regards to you both!
ReplyDeleteHad you not had the recent problem with the fit would you still be thinking the same way? I am not trying to encourage you one way or another, but sometimes a recent mishap can cause a major change in plans where if it had never happened then what. Just something to think about.
ReplyDeleteDon't let this get you down as we've all been there. Take your FIT experience x 17 years and have a mental picture of us pulling out of an RV Park, with full hookups, and forgetting to unhook! Snap, crackle, pop...and the looks on faces with mouths hanging open. Hopefully worth a laugh... Lynda
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